Sunday, December 30, 2012

Making Sure That Online Officiant Is Legal - NYTimes.com

I have been interested in this topic for quite some time.  As more and more wedding vendors such as D.J.s and videographers decide to add officiating to their services, couples need to be aware that their marriage may not be legal.  I don't want to suggest that this is a widespread issue, but I do think that couples should insist that the officiant they choose to solemnize their wedding be trained and properly ordained, rather than someone who pays $20 for an online "quicky" ordination.

It is shocking that couples will research for months to choose the very best photographer or dress designer and yet when it comes to their ceremony, an officiant is chosen based on price or convenience.  There are many states that require officiants to register with the counties in which they operate, and other states that require officiants to have active ministries.  I have officiated two weddings in Virginia, a state that has very strict requirements for officiants.  Couples beware -- if you choose a friend who becomes ordained on the internet in order to officiate your wedding, your marriage may not be legal.

Making Sure That Online Officiant Is Legal - NYTimes.com


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